Honestly was never that big a fan of Joss anyways, so yeah fuck that guy. You don’t have to be a giant creep and asshole to be successful and we shouldn’t reward these types just because they happen be good creative types. For every Joss there’s a Vince Gilligan who’s successful and not a huge asshole and we should be championing that mindset more as a society.
Buffy was one of the first shows I binged, and it basically initiated my love of TV. I have been a fan of Joss ever since, and have even commissioned several Joss products, so it's taken me a while to come to terms with how shitty of a person he is. He always portrayed himself as a feminist and progressive, and seeing the Willow/Tara relationship in Buffy was an important step in my political evolution, so it's really sad to hear that he didn't really live up to those principles. I've never been able to separate the artist from their work, so between this and the JK Rowling TERF stuff, my favorite stories have really taken a hit.