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@Luke "the only remnants patriarchy in America that remain are the things that disadvantage men."and 2 others.Umm... yeah. I don't really know where to start if you really believe this. You may be sick of reading about how bad living in the patriarchy is because you're a man that benefits from it. You only notice it if you're on the shit side - women live it every day. Social science and decades of study aren't quite progressive circle jerks lol.
Last night, me and my boyfriend went on a walk around the neighborhood. We do it sometimes just to chat and move around after being in the office all day. We ended up finding a hole in the wall Jamaican place that I must have passed tons of times but never noticed. Decided to grab dinner there and OMG everything was so good. It's going to be my new neighborhood spot!Good food and quality time with loved ones makes me happy, so that was my positive thing for the day
I have to chime in because my boyfriend and I had the bright idea to make crab, artichoke, and spinach dip and make a grilled cheese out of it the other day. Put it on crusty sourdough and it turned out beautifully.But as far as regular sandwiches go breakfast is top (on a bagel!), and grilled cheese a close second.
I have a distant cousin (we grew up together so we're more like 1st cousins) who is getting married back home in Hawaii today. Her and her fiancé have been together since high school--more than 12 years!--and we're all very excited they're tying the knot. Thing is, they have a 5 year old and just bought their first house. So the wedding is going to be extremely small, 40 guests, only immediate family.I was pretty bummed out when I found out that I and a few others in our friend group couldn't come to the wedding. But, I got over myself, and yesterday she offered to have one of our younger cousins FaceTime me during the ceremony. So I get to "be there" in spirit and I'll be home in a couple of weeks to see her in person and squeal over pictures. Not a strictly positive story but I feel better now that I'm not holding on to that resentment and I'm so happy for this woman that truly deserves it!
Don't even know what to think at this point. I want to stay off of Twitter and news for self-care reasons, but I'm afraid if I look away too long everything will be on fire when I turn back around.